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 12 Dogs of Christmas, The (2005)
IMDB rating: 6.10
Plot: A girl who uses dogs to teach people about the true meaning of Christmas during the Depression.
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12 Dogs of Christmas, The
Directors: Merrill Kieth
Actors: Billingsley John,Hicks Adam,Jackman Jim,Lutes Eric,Riehle Richard,Flory Travis T.,Burns Chris,Howard Charles Michael,Howard Michael,Family,
Dealing with the sudden death of a Dog. How did you cope?
The day after Christmas, I came home and all 3 of my dogs were acting fine. Long story short(er), my 12yo Shepherd/mix was fine for a few minutes after I let her out, but soon after started long, deep, heavy breathing (not choking). She then stumbled into the middle of the yard, layed down, rolled over, and over the course of the next few minutes her breathing slowed to a stop and she passed away. Her yearly was two months prior and everything seemed normal, and otherwise she had no health issues for a 12yo other than minor arthritis… at least none that were apparently visible. I did not have a necropsy done, but based on even more details I won’t bother publishing, the general idea from the vets is that it was most likely a stroke, or heart-related incident based on any number of things (tumor that ruptured, etc etc).
My other two dogs are also around 12 and not in the best of health. Had this happened to either of them, I would be heartbroken but somewhat prepared due to their conditions. For this to happen to the first dog (the "Alpha" of the pack) however, came as an absolute shock, and frankly, 3 weeks later, it’s still hitting as hard as if someone were just beating me down. This particular dog was what they called a "prodigy" dog, meaning she learned things almost instantly at times, and was incredibly intelligent by dog standards (heck, even by some human standards these days). So it really was almost like losing a child rather than a dog. I expected her to last at least 3 more years.
For those who have had dogs die suddenly and with no prior preparation or warning - how did you find ways to cope? I realize I’m human, and for years to come there will be times I shed tears over this loss, so I’m not trying to "forget" or anything. She was a part of my life for 12 years and that will never go away. Still, I’m curious as to the various things people who have gone through this might have done to distract their minds from it when they find they dwelled on it too much. Thanks.
I unfortunately had this happen twice last year!
The first one died here at home. He was the best of the BROTHERS and I still cannot believe that he is gone yet his brother who I hate to say it, was never a favorite dog, is still here acting like a 2 year old puppy in a 13 year old mans suit!
I cant help but wonder what did I do wrong with him? Sometimes, I still dream about him or feel him around and he has been gone since 7/31. I really do believe that he is in a much better place now but, still wish there was something I could have done or a sign that I would have seen that he was in need of medical attention *sigh*
The other doggy was our absolute fav. We had only had him for 9 short years. We noticed that he was "twitching" and acting strange in April of 09 so, he got to the doctors quickly. After many trips and many dollars of having tests done, we found that no matter what we did, we had limited time with him as he had cancers in many places. I had to put him down on 11/3/09
For both, I am still grieving but, it is getting easier knowing that they are no longer in pain or suffering and hopefully, they are at the Rainbow Bridge together, happy, healthy, strong and awaiting me to come play with them again.
Here is a link to what is normal to feel after losing you beloved pet…hope it helps you find some Solace
http://www.2ndchance.info/grieving.htm
My sincere condolences for your loss
I'm All Ears! | Jan 17, 2010
My dog recently passed away….I had her for 11 years…but I just keep thinking, she’s in heaven now and she’s probably got as much steak as she could want in there, and God’s making her happier than she could ever be, and I’ll be with her again someday, just remember your dog is going to be in paradise soon, and will be happier than she could ever be in this world. And you will see her again.
pale face | Jan 17, 2010
i understand how you feel
one of my dogs died as well a while back
and it hurts a lot
but trying to get a new dog is not the same thing
i did that and he is never gonna be replaced
my suggestion is to focus on the other two dogs
life goes on and unfortunately
death is a part of life
im very sorry
you can also not think about it so much
hope this helped you
holaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa | Jan 17, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. There are a lot of pet loss support groups set up, you can find them easily on the internet. These can help tremendously, as other people are dealing with the same things at the same time as you are. I think it is also important to create items in your home to remember her good times. Pictures that you can look at and smile. Take comfort in the care and quality of life you provided to her. Hope this helps you.
kokonutte | Jan 17, 2010
aw

im so sorry about your loss. Dealing with deceased pets is very rough- i know. It just seems so different with out them around, and i agree it hurts so bad that it feels like you lost a child. I found that it helped just remembering the good times with the dog, and looking back at pictures over the years when they were in better health- because that is how you will want to remember you dog. And of course it will make you sad- but at least you wont be thinking about her dying but rather her living and all of the fun stuff she got to do. No other dog will ever be able to replace her though. Time will heal your pain. Get out of the house for a while because her not being there is probably all you will think about.

and again im so sorry about your loss.I hope you feel better.
Ashley N | Jan 17, 2010
I had a dog that nobody would take of, I took her home, fed her every day, and was at work most of the time. My friend was home with dog, and kept her comapny. My friend left, and the dog stayed home, but I always came straight home to be with my dog when ever I could.
My dog followed my girl friend acroos the street, and got hit. I was the last know, and had to go down the block and walk in to a four lane road and pick up my dog. I took her home, and she as in pain, and passed on. It was horrible.
I was so out of it as what to do with my dog. I did go to the animal shelter and she was taken care of. But to this day, I still go straight home after work.
I was mad, and tried to blame, but I knew I had a wonderful time with that animal, and stiil can not remember all the good times. I guess that’s what it is all about.
mr.dfleming57 | Jan 17, 2010
You have to remember the good times you had together and i know how hard it is to loose a pet that you are so close to. You cant imagine the bad things just think positive and think she is in a better place because she was unhealthy. ALl you have to do is focus on your other animals and love them just as much as you loved her. Everything will be ok, you will never forget but the hurt will go away and you will remember the good times and not the hurt!
Good Luck
God Bless.
Elizabeth | Jan 17, 2010
I had a NICE ,less than 18mon. bitc-h keel over & die a couple of weeks ago.
I cussed,bagged the carcass & mopped the floor. Lost 4 this past year.
"If you deal w/livestock long enough,you WILL deal w/dead stock".
Everything dies. Nothing will change that fact.
I won’t collapse in a puddle of mush.
st.lady (GitEm) | Jan 17, 2010
Hi,
I had a dog also who died 2 years ago. At first, it was really tough living without him. I had him for more than 5 years and I used to be with him always. What I did was, I tried talking talking to someone who also with same situation as mine. Until we discovered that getting another dog would help us cope with loss. Check out this site for more tips to help you:
http://lnk.nu/dogtime.com/srv.html
nicey | Jan 17, 2010
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